Marry the person who tells you exactly what he expects and follows through.
Marry the person who demands your respect.
Marry the person who can talk politics, even if her opinions are different from yours.
Marry the person whose eyes flicker with passion about a number of different subjects.
Marry the person who won't let you get away with slacking on your talents.
Marry the person who pushes you to be better every day.
Marry the person with whom you sometimes fight.
Marry the person who is your equal or greater.
and don't forget to marry someone that is crazy as you.