However it is clearly not okay when you hang on to something that is clearly not there and the worst part when you shut every other possibilities.
"I'm not asking you to wake up tomorrow and replacing him eventually. I'm asking you to keep the memories but if someone else comes along don't let it hold you down."
He told me to treat the memories as a book.
Sometimes you grab that book from your shelf.
and read it in a various moods : happy, sad, exciting, painful etc.
But remember the book is still part of your book shelf.
and keep filling your book shelf with another books.
This is because when other people come to your house and asking about your bookshelf,
You're not going to tell them this : Oh I only like this book so I don't care if the shelf is empty and I'm just gonna keep one book on it.
He asked me why hanging on to uncertainty especially one that has proven it didn't work in the past.
I just don't know anymore.