"Don't feel bad if someone rejects you. People usually rejects expensive things because they can't afford them"
- Rejection doesn't feel great but it shouldn't be something you permit to take away happiness from your life.
- It is a healthy attitude to accept that rejection is a part of life and what really matters is finding the way to try again.
- Any kind of rejection, no matter if it's in love, your career, friends, a book proposal or anything else, is not something that should affect how happy you are.
Orang cakap someone yang sanggup bertahan tu lah paling tabah.
Tapi diaorang tak tahu someone yang let go all the bullshits and leave everything behind tu actually yang paling kuat.
Bukan senang bila the past tries to haunt us,
You can't deal with your own self.
We miss the memories,
Not the person.
Orang cakap kita akan jumpa beribu kali orang yang salah sebelum kita jumpa the right one.
Jadi kita akan terus menunggu dan tanpa sedar kita sebenarnya beri risiko terhadap diri sendiri.
Risikonya apabila kita syok sendiri.
Bila kena reject, kita salahkan dia sebab macam bagi harapan.
Padahal dia layan kita macam dia layan orang lain.
Tapi kita lagi pentingkan perasaan dan nafsu ingin berteman,
Sampai sanggup tutup mata hati dari tengok kebenaran.
Bila kena reject, kita sedih.
Lepas tu mula "Hi crush, Why don't you ever see me?"
Crush je pun, tapi kita takut kehilangan dia even the person don't even belong to us.
Tapi lagi best kalau kita mula nak move on, that person tiba-tiba approach.
Kita mula berperang dengan diri sendiri.
Sebab tu ada juga orang cakap, "You can't simply walk into someone else's life, make them feel special and then leave."
Sekarang baru sedar sebenarnya kita tak salah pun.
That person sebenar-benarnya.
Jangan sibuk jaga hati sendiri,
Hati orang lain pun kena hormat.
"Our hearts are wild creatures, that's why our ribs are cages."