"Diaorang tak pernah keluar berdua. Yang perempuan tu mesti akan bawak adik dia. Diaorang kawan lama gila, lepas tu kahwin. Kalau tak panggil couple, what we supposed to call that?"
Situasi 2
"Have you been in a long distance relationship?"
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Situasi 1
Fate. Let's call it fate. In your head right now it might be impossible for 2 people yang tak declare diri diaorang ni couple. Our society anggap bila kita declare je, no one should come in between the two persons. If tak declare, macam-macam boleh jadi. For instance, Mak Temah is in a relationship with Pak Jumat. But one day, jiran Mak Temah ternampak Pak Jumat with a young woman near a river. As we all know, Pak Jumat should be with Mak Temah, so the jiran akan bagi tahu Mak Temah akan hubungan sulit Pak Jumat and the woman. That should be good for Mak Temah cause she could see the flaw in Pak Jumat now before they get married. Isn't that a good thing? So, in a conclusion, it's okay to declare atau pun tak nak declare. It doesn't matter. Some couples tak nak declare because maybe diaorang perlukan privasi, Aku tak nak cakap lebih, because like I said, benda boleh jadi dalam sekelip mata. If the love is long lasted, we just have to call it's a fate.
Situasi 2
Yes, banyak kali. I'm not going to say it as a pro or master dalam bab-bab LDR ni, tapi serius orang akan tanya, "bertahan ke?". Well as for me, let's keep it simple. It's all depends on you yourselves. But at the same time, please don't give your everything to your LDR partner. You're currently in a high risk actually bila LDR. You never knew the real situation your partner is. For instance, bila skype je, he might claims that he's okay. You never knew what's the real thing in his or her daily life. You guys might share everything like photos, current locations, dengan siapa korang berada and all the personal stuff, but you could never believe it 100%. As a conclusion, don't love too much cause you might hurt that much. As for me, I never been to a deep kind of relationship. It's not I'm afraid of the risk. Everything ada risko tersendiri. Kalau both site setia, senang menerima, tak banyak kompelen, always consider satu sama lain, then there should be no problem.
Simple adjustments to your attitude and lifestyle can help you keep that loved one in your life.